The Womens Conference
The Nations Premier Forum For Women
MELISSA MOORE - Author, Shattered Silence
I grew up in poverty -- the victim of domestic violence -- with my father in jail. All of this could have destroyed me; instead, these challenges became a source of purpose and direction in my life.
After enduring tremendous adversity, I decided to compile the lessons I learned in a memoir -- Shattered Silence. Becoming an author and entrepreneur has broadened my experiences. Here are 5 principles I learned along the way:
1. Add Value.
Books are essentially products. Reading a book is an investment of time and money, so the book you write needs to add value for the consumer. Your readers will expect to walk away having learned or been inspired in some way. Make sure your book accomplishes this.
2. Find Support.
Find people who believe in your message. The journey to success starts with gathering your team. Once you have found the people you can depend on, create an economic tie with them. This will allow the efforts of the team to be rewarded when your venture is successful.
3. Be Persistent.
Success comes -- in part -- as the result of persistence. When I finished my first manuscript I sent it off to the publisher, only to be rejected. Beaten down at the thought that all my hours writing were in vain, I realized it would be more of a waste if I gave up, so I rewrote my manuscript. In the end, it was a higher quality piece, which was worth the extra effort and time, and it got published. We may be inches away from success, even when it feels like miles. Don't give up.
4. When Afraid, Do it Anyway.
As entrepreneurs, we all come to a crossroads where we must take a risk. That moment for me was when I decided to leave my job to become a writer. In times of fear, I would visualize the worst scenario possible. Then I would evaluate every problem that could occur and provide a possible solution. This made me feel more in control, trusting that I could handle whatever may come my way.
5. Focus on the Result.
There were moments when I became more concerned about the means than the end (the goal). After setting a goal, you can change your strategy, but don't lose sight of your ultimate destination.
Melissa Moore's is an advocate for women, children, and animals who have suffered abuse and cruelty. A portion of her book royalties support CASA. As a national best selling author and speaker, she shares a dynamic message of having the courage to shine through adversity.
